As moms of “wayward” teenage sons, we spend a lot of time
worrying and praying; we spend time trying to teach and sometimes arguing; we
stay up late so we’re available for those conversations that seem only to happen
in the middle of the night; or we’re up late hoping our son is safe and warm.
We also take care of the needs of our family (meals,
laundry, cleaning, soothing, shopping, etc.).
We work. As members of The Church
of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, we also serve diligently in our callings, including our
ministering assignments, as well as volunteer for extra projects because… well,
because we feel like we should.
Is it any wonder you’re feeling empty, run-down, depleted?
I’m sure you’ve heard all about the importance of taking
care of yourself and you probably even understand it in theory. But now it’s time to actually start putting
yourself at the top of your priority list because even you cannot pour love
from an empty pitcher.
What does this even look like? It may mean you choose to pass on signing up
to take dinner to someone in need (just this once!) so you have time for that
long walk you promised yourself. It
might look like giving up that late-night chat with your son (just this once!)
so you can get the rest you know your body and mind need. Perhaps you will move dinner back 45 minutes
so you have time to exercise or read a book.
